Hello girls! Today I am going to write a little tip on how to get "good" revenge on a guy who did you wrong. What I mean by "good revenge" is like, getting back at him, but not making it too obvious. This tip is written in the sense that you two never dated, but had something romantically going on until he broke your heart or did you wrong in some way and that you still have feelings for him. Hopefully I'm not confusing you guys! But here it goes:
So technology and social media are a big part of our lives today. Almost everyone has a Facebook. So here are two ways to, not necessarily get revenge, but make him feel bad about what he did to you:
#1- Post up statuses directed for him, but don't make it too obvious. Post angry statuses, statuses about how happy you are, etc., but don't reveal too many details. Make him wonder if those statuses are about him or not. But always remember to stay classy, don't call him names, try not to curse... Also try to limit these statuses. if you post up these kinds of statuses like every day, he and everyone else will think that you are
not over him and obsessed with him. You do not want anyone thinking that. They will feel sorry for you, but you should make everyone think that you are over him and you don't need him. I would say just post one like, "Now you'll never see what you've done to me. You can take back your memories, they're no good to me." You know, something showing that you are over him. Then something that will make you seem happy and let everyone know that you don't need him anymore and completely over him, "And truth be told I miss you...And truth be told I'm lying!" I like that one, it's like a mean one but in a funny way. Those quotes are from "Gives You Hell" by The All-American Rejects, by the way. It's a great "I'm over you" kind of song.
#2 - Get pretty and post some pictures of your fine self! Make him wish you were still his. Make him think "damn!" Just be careful those pictures don't reveal much so you don't look unclassy or trashy. And smile, let him know that you are happy without him
If you see him everyday or frequently, here are some tips on how to make him fell bad/jealous:
- get fixed up more
- smile! (:
- hang out with other guys
- flirt with other guys (be careful!)
- talk to him less/ ignore him
Again, always remember to be classy. Don't say anything bad about him or to him. It will make everyone, even him, think that you weren't hurt by what he did. It'll make you seem like you don't care and that you're strong. It's never good to hold grudges. If you don't want to continue being friends with him, you don't have to. You just have to cut him out of your life in the quietest way possible. When we get revenge on a person it lowers us to their level, when we don't, it makes us the bigger person. And you know what they say, "Kill them with kindness." But I don't mean it like keep being nice to him and be his friend , I mean just focus on yourself and not on him. His intent was probably to hurt you, he succeeded, but don't let him know that. Show him and everyone that you no longer care for him but be the bigger person and make him feel ridiculous...