You can't change it, embrace it! This simple sterling silver disc reminds you that 'IT IS WHAT IT IS'. Disc measures 3/4". Wear it along or mix it up with your other charms. Sterling chain sold separately: 18" $85 or 20" $90 Metal Pressions hand stamps sterling silver, 14 karat yellow and rose gold. Our Specialists at Ylang 23 are here to help with any custom stamping requests with or without diamonds, with an approximate 2 week special order timing (no rush fee). If you want to special order this piece with different wording, the price will vary slightly depending on the number of letters.