how crazy was it that when i answered this request on fs, this song was playing on my ipod?!
"don't worry, i'm determined to succeed! follow my lead, & yes indeed, you... will... be, POPULAR. you're gonna be popuuular, i'll teach you the proper poise when you talk to boys, little ways to flirt & flounce, OOH! i'll show you what shoes to wear, how to fix your hair, everything that really counts to be popular... i'll help you be popuullarr! you'll hang with the right cohorts, you'll be good at sports, know the slang you've got to knooow, so let's start cause you've got an awfully long way to gooooo! ♥♥"
- popular, wicked. (:
hahaha that's insaanee.
ALRIGHT, SERIOUS NOW.. (;
& im talking about being popular & RESPECTED, not popular because everyone hates you... OK. !
O1; be NiCE ♥(:
- be nice to e v e r y o n e ! even if they're not nice to you, just offer them a smile & be the bigger personn(:
- always be open to new friends & people who are having a conversation
- if you see someone in the hallway, ALWAYS say hey. it's common courtesy to at least acknowledge them, & they deserve a simple hello! it's not that hard... even if you don't like each other, say hello. your SIMPLE aok might shock them
- NEVER EVER think that you're above someone in any way. unless they're like osama or something lol but ANYWAY, at this point in life, everyone has a chance to turn around - even if they're making bad decisions now, there's no need to focus so much on their imperfections. everyonee has potential to make a difference. it's just whether they realize & take advantage of it or nott(: ♥
- don't judge people.
- say HELLO to people, and MAKE FRiENDS. resolve to mae a new friend every day, starting now. be more open to those inds of things(:
- always SMILE to people(: ♥ not only is your smile your best feature, but it's just a really nice thing to do!
- give compliments out
- don't gossip! save your breath, & you don't want to create a bad rep for yourself.
- know how to keep secrets. being able to keep someone's secret SERIOUSLY helps to further a friendship, by a milestonee.
- be modest, generous, helpful, & thankful. ♥
- do to others what you want them to do to youu!!
O2; make yourself a respectable person! ♥
be the kind of girl that doesn't always gossip. be CLASSY too! for example, when you're taing photos, there's no need to drink alcohol,be provocative, stick your tongue between your two fingers, or flip people off (what goes on in people's head when they pose like that anyway? like HMM, IDK WHAT TO DO SO I GUESS ILL JUST STICK UP THIS MIDDLE FINGER TO TRY TO LOOK COOL (;;;; ....no.) there're OTHER, more effective ways to show that you're having fun.
don't act like such a ditz either! it's cute to act silly sometimes, but when you take it too far (derr... im a senior in this school but where is da bathroom? herpa derp!) people will just avoid you.
listen to people when they want to talk, and always be a shoulder for them to cry on. ♥
& don't be afraid to show off some of you unique-ness! if you have a knack for something, you're not showing off!
be confident & optimistic
work to your full potential -- nurture your talents, get good grades, etc. people will respect you SO MUCH MORE!
be polite & have manners!
know your grammar when you talk! people will respect you SO much more if you say, "may i please use the bathroom" rather than "YO BTCH IM OUT TO TAKE A SHT KPCE"
know when to stop & when to keep going. ie. if someone is crying and you try to help them, only help them to the extent that it actually HELPS. usually when people are crying, they're not quite ready to tal it out. they need to cry first, you know? just give them a shoulder to cry on & let them know you're there for them when they need to talk. & if they ask to be left alone, you should honor their request. ♥
don't be too nosy! or a huge pushover.
only say things that you mean & make promises that you can keep
be optimistic and surround yourself with people who will have a positive influence on you(: ♥
O3; boys ♥
know your boundaries with boys. if they're taken, dont flirt with them.
don't flirt with everyone, you'll create a bad rep for yourself!
focus on one guy & keep the rest as friends. ♥ nothing more!
& know the difference between being friendly & being flirty. if someone tell you you're being too flirty, take their word on it(:
O4; be perdy(;;; ♥
in addition to being sweet & friendly, you want to be attractive arrightt haha
wear clothes that fit right & suit you physically & emotionally
shave & pluck your brows often
make sure you wash your clothes & bathe often
carry mints / gum so your breath wont be stinkayyy!
wash your face often
maintain your hair by trimming it, making sure your roots match (if you dye it), etc
play up your best featuress(:
smilee & laugh!
well yup. ♥
that is all
hope this helps whoever requested itt!