When you aren't attracted to your boyfriend any longer and the relationship drags on it just hurts. It hurts him and it hurts you. Problem is, it's hard to recognize he signs of lost attraction, here's some common signs that you can reconize. If you find that some of these signs do apply either consider a break up or try working it out with him. Talk to him, try to figure out when things started going off track ad try to set yourselves back on the road.
♥EVERYTHiNG HE DOES GRATES ON YOUR NERVES
If every single, small and tiny thing he does end up in your rolling your eyes or grating your teeth in annoyance? Even when he's just trying to start up a conversation with you? This is the first sign of not being attracted to your boyfriend anymore. It's difficult to admit, especially if you've been together for a long time, but it can always happen if you let it.
♥YOU DON'T TRUST HiM ANYMORE
Trust is a big big thing in relationships--all relationships, not just the romantic sort. And it is very important that it is present. If you stop trusting him, if you start thinking that maybe those late nights with his friends are fishy and every compliment he hands out is backhanded then you may have stopped trusting him and are losing the attraction towards him.
♥YOU CHECK OUT OTHER GUYS
Okay, first let me say that it's okay and normal to quickly have a little look-see at other smexy beasts and measure them up to your guy. But that's only okay once in a blue moon. If you're constantly doing it though then you may have lost the attraction between you and your man. Pay close attention to when you catch your self giving a guy the eye. It could become a sign of lost allure.
♥YOU DON'T MiSS HiM
Remember those first couple week of your relationship where he'd be out for an hour and you felt like crying because of how much you miss him? If that has changed *drastically* since then? If it has, and you hardly even notice he's gone then it's a sign you are no longer attracted to your guy.
♥WHEN HE TALKS, iT ANNOYS YOU
Let’s say that you are just surfing the internet and your boyfriend is trying to have a good conversation with you – and it annoys you to no end. Whenever your boyfriend opens up his mouth to speak at all, you find yourself rolling your eyes and looking for any excuse to shut him up. Ladies, that’s another sign you are not attracted to your boyfriend anymore.
♥YOU THiNK EVERYTHiNG HE SAYS iS STUPiD
While I may have mentioned that he could annoy you when he talks, but do you honestly thinking that every single thing that he says is stupid? Do you think that every opinion that he states is something you’d never think of? Girls, if it goes beyond annoyance and actually shifts into you thinking that he is stupid, that is one sign you are not attracted to your boyfriend anymore.
♥YOU DON'T RESPECT HiM ANYMORE
Respect is a huge thing and it's really hard to be attracted to someone you don't respect. Which is why it's a big sign of lost attraction. If you don't respect him or his choices anymore and start thinking he is just so freaking awful and treat him that way then you definitely have lost your attraction towards him.
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