So, As a girl you're gonna have a crush on a guy, right? And if you have a crush on that 'certain someone' you want to get to know them better, and what better way to get to know them then texting them!?!
First, here are somethings to remember when texting your crush:
01. If you're in middle school, like me, focus on being friends with the guy. Middle school relation ships don't last, so just try to be friends with him, & maybe when your older you can finally get out of the friend zone.
02. Don't be flirty.
Sure a little flirting isn't bad, but remember focus on being friends.
Alright moving on now(: more about the tip...
HOW AND WHAT TO TEXT HIM:
1.) START OUT SLOW.
Find a reason to text him. For me, I found a question I 'needed' to ask him, so i did it through text.
2.) DON'T RESPOND IMMEDIATELY
once you find an excuse to text him, if he responds immediately, wait a little bit before replying so you want come across as desperate.
3.) TALK ABOUT HIM
Ask about him. his life, school, pet, family, sport whatever. that is something boys know how to talk about(: Eventually, he'll ask questions about your life too.
4.) MAKE CONVERSATION
The hardest problem i have is carrying on conversation, because the guy I like is a really bland texter, haha. Just keep it going for as long as you can! For example, one time he texted me and asked if I could take care of his dogs why he is out of town. What did I do? I made conversation!!(: I asked him stuff like, oh are you going out of town? where are you going? why are you going? what will you be doing there? && he replied and asked me some questions to. Don't ask too many questions though, or it gets annoying, haha:)
5.) TEXTING BUUDDYS:)
After texting him for a while and asking him questions, eventually you can get to the point where you just txt him to text. A simple message like hi, or how are you? :)
Does this help? i hope so!
let me know if you have any questions
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it. thanks for reading!
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