Carol I saw your picture of your sweet Ashley, she was just the same colouring and kind of cat as our dear Sparky who we had for 16 years and who we have never ever forgotten, she used to almost talk to us and was so affectionate...maybe it's that grey colour, that kind of cat, I think she almost had some Burmese in her??? I know this is going to be such a hard time for you just now, but your sweet girl is at peace now and will always be with you in mind and spirit and in your heart....Giant Hugs for you xxxx