i have the pink one and like it...it's definitely different - i haven't worn it yet and tags are still on though. :) it has a nice drape but it's got a looser fit so you could try sizing down if possible. i was planning on wearing it like this:
http://www.polyvore.com/burgundy_pink/set?id=12842827 (minus the shoes and bag). i bought it mostly to wear as a layer - the silk on it is pretty IRL. i haven't seen the carbon one though. Hope that helps! :)