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luisa-juliana-romero
Wrote two months ago
i thought you were supposed to love someone for who they are

paik2
Wrote 4 months ago
I love this! Seriously soooo true and its so cute and I cant stop oogoling over it :) Love it!!!

fashiongirlz143
Wrote 5 months ago
Yea.... this is flippin awesome

wake-me-up-before-you-go-go
Wrote 5 months ago
all i can say is: awwwwwwwww :')

fashiongirlz143
Wrote 5 months ago
love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3

ink1212
Wrote 5 months ago
I love this so much and it is one of my favourite sets!!! thank's so much for posting this! it is amazing and i will remember this set for eternity!!! thanks again! <3 i hope there's a guy out there for me!

angelasdesignz
Wrote 6 months ago
I am 38 years old with 2 babies and this article is nice. My one and only takes care of me wonderfully. The dudes with the negative comments below are the douchecanoes that the smart girls stay away from. :)

discus
Wrote 6 months ago
omg this is SO CUTE this made my day!!! I am 17 and have never dated cause im waitin for the right person. I dont see any reason to date someone that u dont seriously like. but this is the type of guy i am waitin for that agrees with this!!! i cant wait till my futere beau will tell me "u need to realize". Thanks so much made my day check out my sets @discus and if u like what u see please follow me :) <3 from TEXAS

emery-kat
Wrote 6 months ago
I love this it is so cute! I will keep this in mind for "someday in the distant future" when I find the right person...

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Wrote 8 months ago
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sukayamccoy
Wrote 9 months ago
wtf is like a dating hand book for a 16 year old?

bonniejones
Wrote 9 months ago
well this has made me feel extremely lonely and depressed haha

xoheatherlynnxo
Wrote 9 months ago
i already have a boyfriend exactly like this; this post just reminds me how perfect he is, and how frigen lucky i am to have him in my life; im sincerely blessed. i love him to death, xoxo :)

narwhalsrock
Wrote 11 months ago
i want a boyfriend...who acts like this :]

christina-leeee
Wrote one year ago
i want a boyfriend, just for this...

zenith-art
Wrote one year ago
well....i m deeply moved ....i wud have been a gr8 girlfriend...bt i guess it's not meant 4 me 2 be dat...!!btw...luvly...reallly...

alsyn
Wrote one year ago
As a guy, half of this list tells me you're dating girls who are either very immature, or VERY not your type. Because half the list is just stuff you don't find in intelligent women, and the other half of the list is things only a jealous/insensitive/inconsiderate man would have a problem with. Changing people doesn't work. Making a list online that tells girls they are "wrong" for a bunch of activities that they probably derive a LOT of enjoyment from? Also wrong. Bad list is bad.

chuck-rose
Wrote one year ago
this guy is totally right, you don't want a girl that has all the looks but is dense in the head. a girl that wears all the short close leaves nothing to the imagination. you want a woman for what she is not what she looks like. if you look for women off of appearances you will spend your life alone. don't treats women like there a piece of meat it really ruins it for other guys. women are people with feeling that deserve respect.

stuman491
Wrote one year ago
Not sure why he wouldn't want a girl to get all dolled up for him all the time. I would prefer it. Heck if she wants to put on makeup before we go to bed I would never complain. Guys love a girl that knows how to dress herself up. And please wear that shortest skirt you have when we are around. Its hot!

elissa-bernheim
Wrote one year ago
guys have to realize that they can love a girl with out being sappy about it. not every girl wants a bowl of pudding as their boyfriend and theres a lot more truth in your feelings when you dont dramatize them with phrases like "holding each other tenderly"

jociecole
Wrote one year ago
this is THE CUTEST THING EVER...i dont know if a guy really wrote this because i swear to god these are all the things i've been dreaming my guy would do for ever!

pandorasvortex
Wrote one year ago
Laaaaaaaaaame. Lose the nice guy syndrome.

nahomyromero
Wrote one year ago
omg this is so beautiful. i need someone so. I give a standing ovation. love it! and don't worry everybody can be happy alone, only need believe in your and love you ! xoxo

dreamhugger
Wrote one year ago
i know there are freaking perfect guys out there like this..... DID THEY CRAWL IN A HOLE?!?!

snowiz
Wrote one year ago
I gave a nice guy a chance for the first time, never thought it would work out. I thought I'd get bored. like in all of my relationships, I started to break up with him when we started getting close. to protect myself. He asked me to take a risk, to see where this goes. Now were going three years strong and one of the healthiest high school relationships I know of. There's only a "friend zone" if you make one, ladies. Open your eyes to whose really there. Open your hearts to who truly cares. And open your options, you'll never know what you'll find <3

notretarded
Wrote one year ago
this is written in the stance that he is not in a relationship with said girl, therefore nulifying any claims to anger towards her behavior. the only reason a guy is in the "friend zone" is because he put himself there. and if your talking for the guys in general you might want to not pick specific times you were screwed over by your false claims to boyfriendness because obviously this is not for the general good and its just to show how passive agressive you are about this which will not change your girl troubles. also insinuating that people that don't agree with this are jerks and totally not like you is juvenile.

sonia-brigid-lawton
Wrote one year ago
Well, I hope you find the right woman to lay your quivering body down for a relationship sure to be more lesbian than if there were two ACTUAL women involved. I mean, come on... this post has more estrogen flying about then a teen pregnancy support group. Way to be a man.

bridgetbishop
Wrote one year ago
Thanks dude, will remember to act accordingly. Misogyny. <333

z0mb3l0vv3r
Wrote one year ago
We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off ...... It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still thereWe don't care if a guy calls or texts youbut at 2 in the morning we do get a ... little ... ... concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 amThat it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince youThe sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door openTake Advantage of the mood im in. Let us pay for you!don’t "feel bad"We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you”. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody'slooking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need towear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. It seems that we make mistakes...I guess that was an attempt at not looking shallow. Haha... yeah we make mistakes. Honestly think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown,Brad Pitt,or Jesse McCartney is in front of us or any other guy isIt's boring, and we don't care.You have girlfriends for that. and it pisses us off Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"i'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted mewith "Hey handsome!"instead of "Hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy"or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!!Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male populationand find someone who will treat you with utter respectSomeone who will honor your morals Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes.... and say "i love you", and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance. Guys repost this if you agreeGirls repost this if you think it's cute. Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this. so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this. ADVICE;*Holdin Hands*Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple oftimes. *Movies*Girls: During a movie if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulderGuys : Lift her chin up and kiss her *Loving each other*Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love hertoo and mean it *Laying below the starsGirls; When you're both laying under the stars put your headon his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beatGuys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers

faesser
Wrote one year ago
This rocks bro!

subammas
Wrote one year ago
i say behind every good woman is a man lookin at her ass with that being said we know from the start were not mr right but we will fuck you till he gets there.... its really that simple

eelaughton
Wrote one year ago
stop telling us what to do and what not to do. it sounds like you were with a girl who didn't make you happy. did you ever try telling any of this to her? if you couldn't change her, maybe you should take your own advice and get with a girl who is a better fit for you, who appreciates you and doesn't make you so angry. i can hear your frustration but you could have some more compassion and understanding for the people you choose to have relationships with, you are the one who chose to date them after all.

lajdsfkljdsf
Wrote one year ago
I am a woman...and no matter how much this warms my heart I kinda agree with @afsafsfs. I mean, yes guys you do need to be kind and sweet because there are not many guys out there anymore who are not complete asses. Now nice guys, if you want that nice girl across the room... you do need to make those moves on the girls. The first being actually asking us out or picking up on the signs. I mean, I cannot tell you how many times I HAVE to maned up and go after the "nice guys" just to have them not pick up the hint. Another thing, both women and men have a part to play and its no fair pointing fingers at each other because we are all complaining about what we don't have or what we wish the other person COULD be. The key to a healthy relationship is to be equal. Nobody needs to change for the other person just for the sake of changing. Its about being on equal ground where both have a say in the relationship. Also, the line about "someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel" is not fair either because nobody in the relationship should be "feeling bad". Girls are not supposed to be the abusive ones either. I cannot tell you how many girls are puppeteers which is not alright either. Again, equal is what key. Thank you and have a great day.

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Wrote one year ago
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marbri
Wrote one year ago
dear, eric-moadebe-buckner, here we go again with the "give the nice guy a chance", maybe if the nice guy would man up and stop being a baby, the girl would see he likes her. but if he does absolutely nothing, he's going to get absolutely nothing. and just because you are nice to a girl, does not mean she is required to like you back. stop with the pity party already. seriously.

marbri
Wrote one year ago
"give the nice guys a chance". ahaha. yet another example of the "nice guy entitlement syndrome". guys feel that just because they don't make a move on you in the first 5 minutes, that they are entitled to the girl they are supposedly in the friend zone with. Also, this guy assumes that all girls just blindly follow what they see in magazines and tv. don't assume that we're all air headed mindless drones that do whatever we hear from our "role models". this article is basically ridiculous also,"Nothing is that important at 2 am That it can't wait till the morning."? ha. yeah right. sex. that is something that is important at 2 am and cannot wait til morning. just saying. girls want sex just as much as guys.

brooke-patterson
Wrote one year ago
this is the gayest thing ive ever read. When i go to a movie, i go to WATCH the movie not to cuddle with the person im with. wtf. I paid 10 bucks for that shit, i can cuddle for free at home.

monkeymango
Wrote one year ago
mostly true :) good to know people care, but it is also hard for girls to believe some of this if their heart has been broken a few times. guys need to understand that sometimes it isn't easy to do some of these things if the former is true.

savannah-dziewulski
Wrote one year ago
um, im not sure what guys YOU know, but that is not the case! whoever gets you, you are a gem. dont let any girl treat you different.

david-decoster
Wrote one year ago
"Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel." That line sums up how dumb that article was.

jade-panda-babe-santoro
Wrote one year ago
and kris cooper i agree with you 150%

jade-panda-babe-santoro
Wrote one year ago
greatest thing ive heard in ages...and im only 16. So honest and true. Whomever wrote this i give them not only a simple "pat on the back" i give them a standing ovation and a smile that says "its about time someone spoke the truth and it wasnt a woman."

kris-strehlow-cooper
Wrote one year ago
I don't know how old everyone else is or how many relationships you've had but I'm 40 & had 2 very long, serious relationships, & 3 short term ones before I married my amazing husband who does all what's listed above. This guy is on the ball. It's not bullshit or sucking up. Yes, there's some double standards but that's because they exist in the real world. Men and women are people with feelings yet have different ideas about how romance and relationships are. Landon, I hope you find a woman worth you. Don't worry how long it takes; some women take awhile to learn what a good man is by having to deal with some bad ones first. And for everyone posting negative comments and not offering any constructive contributions, maybe you need to stop posting on a positive page & find something that will make you happy & improve the world.

alfie-farrell
Wrote one year ago
this is really amateur and shit, how many relationships have you had?

therealkl
Wrote one year ago
i love this

writteninthestars-b
Wrote one year ago
this is beautiful!! <3

eric-moadebe-buckner
Wrote one year ago
I think its funny that a few women said that this is bull or not real. This is very real and I know because this is the type of guy i am. Too bad that women such as afsafsfs see all guys like this. It drives guys like me up the wall when yall do that cause you constantly run off and get with beaters, and abusers and then run to the nice guy to cry on their shoulder and when you are feeling better you run back off to some abuser and wonder where the good ones are. How about you look at the one who is always there for you when you are down and at your darkest hour? I be secretly if he is single he probably has strong feelings for you but you are too dense to see it or acknowledge it. Give the nice guys a chance for once. U just might be happy for once if you did

eric-moadebe-buckner
Wrote one year ago
I think its funny that a few women said that this is bull or not real. This is very real and I know because this is the type of guy i am. Too bad that women such as afsafsfs see all guys like this. It drives guys like me up the wall when yall do that cause you constantly run off and get with beaters, and abusers and then run to the nice guy to cry on their shoulder and when you are feeling better you run back off to some abuser and wonder where the good ones are. How about you look at the one who is always there for you when you are down and at your darkest hour? I be secretly if he is single he probably has strong feelings for you but you are too dense to see it or acknowledge it. Give the nice guys a chance for once. U just might be happy for once if you did

afsafsfs
Wrote one year ago
Am I the only girl that sees this for what it really is? What he says is full of double standards and contradictions. He's obviously sucking up to the girls, too, I mean... if a girl has a boyfriend that "isn't treating her right" (whatever the hell that vagueness could mean) she should dumb him because hes "disgrace to the male population" but the boyfriend should love her "no matter bad she makes him feel"? Really? That's not how it works, sweetheart. Boys and girls, you want to know the real secret to a successful relationship? Pick somebody who you love being around and try to be someone that they love being around. If they don't like a habit of yours, consider changing for them, they'll see your devotion and be more likely to make sacrifices for you as well. Stay loyal no matter what and trust that they'll do the same. Oh, and don't be a martyr. No one likes that in a relationship.

jefferson-toblerone
Wrote one year ago
This is misogynistic crap. Hashtag Stumble Upon fail.
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