I just wanted to say:
I'm not a "she".
I'm transgender. Just because I am feminine doesn't mean anything other than that I am feminine.
I'm also genderfluid (at any given moment my gender identity changes), so if you want to know whether to call me "he" or "she" or other pronouns, ask me.
Just say, "What pronouns are you using today?"
Typically, there are 3 sets of pronouns I go by:
he | his | him
she | her | hers
ze | hir | hirs
"Ze" is pronounced like [zee].
"Hir" is pronounced like [here]. As in I am *here*.
If you feel uncomfortable asking me, or I don't reply to your PM right away, just go with ze | hir | hirs.
If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask me.
But try to be kind about it. :P
It's not a lot to ask... but it would mean the world to me to be referred to as the person I am.
If anyone has bothered to read this and will try to respect it if you ever have to refer to me as some gender, please comment, "pants". It would mean the world to me.